Hello Everyone,

I have taking a quick break from blogging and podcasting, but I'm back bitches!
So, I want to talk about Cheater, yes I said it. I am sure we have all heard some comedians joke about how when women cheat they are slick and know how to play it off and men are sloppy about it. Well, this is true for most, but not for all. Ok, so imagine you been married for 5 years and have a few young kids and a dog, ya know the whole package. But, you and your spouse are drifting a little do to work and kids and you do have sex like you used to and only talk in passing,so you are feeling a bit lonely and and undesired. What are you going to do? You have two choices, you canresolve the real issue with your spouse, or you can seek outside ways of making yourself feel loved and desired. You are standing at the crossraods, weighing your options and BAM you pick the easy safe way to go......If you have not guessed what the easy way is yet, it is the choice to make yourself feel better. You have to start somewhere, so you look to that guy or girl who is an old friend or an office pal that has been there for you. You have always known that this person was interested in you and would do anything to make you feel better. So, you get a hotel and do the do and you have this great affair.Your on top of the world, feeling great, nothing can go wrong.

Well, as most people know someone will start to develope feeling or your spouse will find, you know some crazy shit. But, this is not the point really. The point is why are we afriad to to face our real problems? Why do we hide who we really are, and mislead the people we say we love the most? The easy way out is harder in the end than facing the real problem. You your family, ruining the esteem of the "other" man or women, and you will feel lower than low. Just remember what little pleasure you will gain compared to all you can lose.

-Rachael