Mental Pepper Spray

Yeah I know, I know it been a long time, but I had a bust summer. I hope all has good for you guys, but I have to talk about something that has been bothering me latly. So, have you ever meet a person who so naive and has no sense of self, that they are willing to do anything to prove that they are justr like you?

Ok, so about 5 months ago I meet a young mother in her early 20's who seemed like she was very mature and had her shit together. Well, I seemed to be the only person who could see through this mask and see a little girl who was so lost that she did whatever people around that has acceptable. She was pretending like she was a very strong, independant women who would allow people to change her views life (sounds like someone you know?) Well, along with a few of my friends we would invite her to hang out and have a few drinks with us and I finally just told her that she needed to stop pretending that she is like me, because it is not convicing, because I'm not only stright foward with other people and am the same way with myself. If am not happy, I will break my neck to change what is making me unhappy. She would always complain that she didn't like her boyfriend and they didn't have a "normal" relationship. I just told her that she is using that relationship as a front, because she doesn't want people to think that she is a young single mother who got knocked up by a dumbass. Well, that is what happened and settling witht the first guy who takes you is not smart, no matter what's going on in your life you deserve to be happy.

So, after a while she breaks up with her boyfriend and loses her mind. I want to STOP for a sec and explain my feeling on sex. Ok, I enjoy sex my the next person, but in this day and age you have to be VERY CAREFUL!!!! One night of pretty good sex with wrong person could be a dead sentence. Personally, my all my sex partners have been guys that I have known for a while and have a open relationship with, so we can talk about things without being ashamed of anything. I'm not "trying" to judge anyone, but PLEASE be smart about what you are doing.

Ok, lets pick this back up. So, she starts going out a meeting strange and sleeping with them and putting herself in situation that would be perfect for a crazy person to take advantage of her or more serious things. You never know what crazy man might have you coming over at 2am and have 5 of his friends run a train on you, or he will get you over and torture, kill, and bury or ass in his back yard. I know it sounds morbid, but this shit happens.

All I'm saying is protect yourself not only with condoms and birth control, but protect yourself with knowledge and common sense.

So, I'm out!
-Rachael

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