A Thin Line.....

Oh what a day, what a day.

Ok, let's start with the fact that when I got to work, a close co-work/friend of mine comes to me balling her eyes out. So, natually the first thought that come to my mind is "Oh God not again." Let's do a back check of the situation, she is a middle aged woman who is in love with this guy who in a semi-serious relationship and she is doing her best to convice him to leave his girlfriend for her. Well, like anyone who is being stalked to death, he tell her "You are a great girl and many guys would love to be with you, but I'm not interested" *translation: Leave me the hell alone you crazy ass freak. So, a normal person would think ok the guy does like me, but NOOOOOO she thinks he is playing hard to get and she doesn't understand why he would play with her emotions like that. So, being the pretty stright foward person that I am, I tell her to pretty much start getting over him....so now she thinks am crazy for giving her sane advise. I don't know maybe stalkers live by a whole new set of rules. I truly adore the girl, but come on there is a thin line between love and obsession.

Is it just me, but when I am intrested in a guy the first thing I do is find out if he has a girlfriend and make my moves from there. I don't understand the logic of persuing someone who doesn't want you. Yeah, it will hurt to be dump or in some cases not picked up, but you need to take a deep look at yourself and love everything about you, then move on.

Ok, that's my thoughts for the day. Bye.