Hello Everyone,

I have taking a quick break from blogging and podcasting, but I'm back bitches!
So, I want to talk about Cheater, yes I said it. I am sure we have all heard some comedians joke about how when women cheat they are slick and know how to play it off and men are sloppy about it. Well, this is true for most, but not for all. Ok, so imagine you been married for 5 years and have a few young kids and a dog, ya know the whole package. But, you and your spouse are drifting a little do to work and kids and you do have sex like you used to and only talk in passing,so you are feeling a bit lonely and and undesired. What are you going to do? You have two choices, you canresolve the real issue with your spouse, or you can seek outside ways of making yourself feel loved and desired. You are standing at the crossraods, weighing your options and BAM you pick the easy safe way to go......If you have not guessed what the easy way is yet, it is the choice to make yourself feel better. You have to start somewhere, so you look to that guy or girl who is an old friend or an office pal that has been there for you. You have always known that this person was interested in you and would do anything to make you feel better. So, you get a hotel and do the do and you have this great affair.Your on top of the world, feeling great, nothing can go wrong.

Well, as most people know someone will start to develope feeling or your spouse will find, you know some crazy shit. But, this is not the point really. The point is why are we afriad to to face our real problems? Why do we hide who we really are, and mislead the people we say we love the most? The easy way out is harder in the end than facing the real problem. You your family, ruining the esteem of the "other" man or women, and you will feel lower than low. Just remember what little pleasure you will gain compared to all you can lose.

-Rachael

Mental Pepper Spray

Yeah I know, I know it been a long time, but I had a bust summer. I hope all has good for you guys, but I have to talk about something that has been bothering me latly. So, have you ever meet a person who so naive and has no sense of self, that they are willing to do anything to prove that they are justr like you?

Ok, so about 5 months ago I meet a young mother in her early 20's who seemed like she was very mature and had her shit together. Well, I seemed to be the only person who could see through this mask and see a little girl who was so lost that she did whatever people around that has acceptable. She was pretending like she was a very strong, independant women who would allow people to change her views life (sounds like someone you know?) Well, along with a few of my friends we would invite her to hang out and have a few drinks with us and I finally just told her that she needed to stop pretending that she is like me, because it is not convicing, because I'm not only stright foward with other people and am the same way with myself. If am not happy, I will break my neck to change what is making me unhappy. She would always complain that she didn't like her boyfriend and they didn't have a "normal" relationship. I just told her that she is using that relationship as a front, because she doesn't want people to think that she is a young single mother who got knocked up by a dumbass. Well, that is what happened and settling witht the first guy who takes you is not smart, no matter what's going on in your life you deserve to be happy.

So, after a while she breaks up with her boyfriend and loses her mind. I want to STOP for a sec and explain my feeling on sex. Ok, I enjoy sex my the next person, but in this day and age you have to be VERY CAREFUL!!!! One night of pretty good sex with wrong person could be a dead sentence. Personally, my all my sex partners have been guys that I have known for a while and have a open relationship with, so we can talk about things without being ashamed of anything. I'm not "trying" to judge anyone, but PLEASE be smart about what you are doing.

Ok, lets pick this back up. So, she starts going out a meeting strange and sleeping with them and putting herself in situation that would be perfect for a crazy person to take advantage of her or more serious things. You never know what crazy man might have you coming over at 2am and have 5 of his friends run a train on you, or he will get you over and torture, kill, and bury or ass in his back yard. I know it sounds morbid, but this shit happens.

All I'm saying is protect yourself not only with condoms and birth control, but protect yourself with knowledge and common sense.

So, I'm out!
-Rachael

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Why do we lie to ourselves?

Hey ya guys,

Alright, so I have been sitting here thinking about a few situations that happened last week with a a few of my friends. And one of my friends is so blind to her situation, and I have given up trying to help.As I have said many of times before, I am the type of person who says what I think, but at a certain point I can't feel sorry for you. So, I feel that this friend of mine is purposly turning a blind one to a person who doing her wrong, because she is scared of losing this person. The sad thing is that so many girls are in this situation and I just don't understand it.Why would you sit there a let a person make a fool out of you, and then you
co-sign on the foolishness by sticking to that person. You know what a person does and the decisions they make are there own bussiness, but then you cone to me a few months later and want me to listen to the mess that is going on, or that he gave you a std, or he just up and left your ass. Come on be dead honest with yourself and understand that if you put up with shit, at the end you will be shit faced and you should not be surprised about that outcome.

I don't get why women think that these dude are worth this much. Fuck that, these mother fuckers are REPLACEABLE, stop thinking your life is gonna end if you leave him, or he leaves you. Yeah you will hurt for a bit, but you will get over that and find a real dude who deserves and respects you.Life is to short to be unhappy, just remember to take control, make it happen and lead the way. As also have fun and be safe, I'm out.

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Don't Date a Dumbass

Hey you guys,

Yeah I know it's been awhile since I have last updated, but I have been updating my podcast so check it out. So, I just wanted to talk about how people view relationships. There are just some things I just don't understand, there are some chicks I know that have such low self worth, that any guy that will have them they will take, and let him run them down to the ground.Ladies, come on this is soooo crazy! Why would you sit there and let some dude go out and do whatever he wants, say whatever he wants, and make you feel horrible, but your dumbass still holding on. Excuse the laugage, but FUCK that SHIT! No, if dude can not respect you, then you need to get your ass up and leave. But what kills me is that these girls will talk big game, like if he ever did this or that I would go off and leave bla bla bla, but when his ass does the shit you just sittin' there lookin' like a dumb ass.

Maybe, it is just me, but I will tell it like it is at all times. Yeah, I have run into guys who can't take it, but that's cool I am not going to change to please anyone. I was talking to my best friend Heather yesterday and I told her I went out on a date, and the guy I am seeing kinda got pissed. She ask me would I be upset if he went out on a date, and truth is that I would be a bit pissed. But, we are just dating and are both allowed to date other people, until we agree that we only want to datge each other. For me that is the best way to go, because no one is playing games and it is a true test of how you like the person. Think about it, you can have sex with anyone, but there is that one person that you come back to, because there is something more then sex bringing you back.

My point is that don't take trash, because that all you have at the moment.No one lives forever, so might as well be happy in the time that you have. Ok,I am done.
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Girl Talk:The Best of Both Worlds

No, R Kelly and Jay z are not going back on tour. This is question many girls many face (*guys you may want to leave now*) should I date the guy who is successful or the guy who can work it in bed?????? (last warning guys). So, I met this guy who we should call M and he is tall, cute and successful he is the dream guy. The only thing he is lacking is bedroom skills, which is kinda a big deal, but I think he could learn. The other guy we can call S and he is not as successful, but he is damn good in bed.

So, ok this is where we break it down. I am a grown women who knows that sex is an important aspect of a relationship and if testing the water is what I have to do then that is what I will do. I know for a fact that I am attracted to succesful men, not in a gold digging way, but I like men who are smart and that pride in it, so I love nerds. I don't know. I really like M, but I can't dread being intimate with him right? S is cool, but I think we may be on diff. wave lenghts.

I guess we will see. I may pick someone new. Let me know what you think.
What would you do or have done. And guys who have read this far, what do you think?
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It's been a long time....

Heeeey,

Since doing the podcast I haven't posted as much as much, but there are alot of things to talk about. Well, I met a new guy....and I don't know, he is really nice, which kinda worries me because, I never know how to size up a nice guy. But, i'm giving him a chance, the only thing that is kinda hard to get over is out age difference, not that it is a big deal, but sometimes I worry that I may be to immature for him. Not that i'm a little kid or anything, but I like to do 23 y/o things. He does seem to have a problem w/ it so far, but it is new to both of us.

I'm kinda thinking of not dicussing it with some friends (like they don't read this), but I like to keep things to myself for awhile, then I will know the right time to share. I did tell everyone about the last freak I was dating and about a month later that went to hell. Ohhhhh, speaking of that... he called me yesterday and told me he was thinking about moving out of state and was wondering how I would feel about that. (Pause: Ok that would be really sweet, if I cared) I told him good luck. He was like oh, well I thought you would be upset(Pause: Get the fuck over it), and if you wanted me to stay and try the ralationship thing again, I could find a job here. I was like no I think you need to move on and find someone who is similar to you. I did kinda feel bad, but I can't waste my last with someone I feel sorry for.

So, I'm hoping the new guy won't turn out to be a dud. The odd thing is he feels the need to spoil me, which don't get me wrong I LOVED to be spoiled, but I don't like people feeling like they have to, ya know. I think I can get over it lol ; ) .

Thought of the day: Be who you are, and be real. That is the key to finding what makes you happy and what makes life worth living. Find a friend to help you sort out your thoughts, if they are against you being who you want to be, then they are not a friend.

Have a great day you guys.

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Podcast Peepshow!

Hey,

It's been awhile but I have been working on my new Random Rachael podcast.
It is done and you can listen to it @ http://RandomRachael.com.
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The next show will be up soon about my best friend 3 week late birthday celebration and all the crazyness. Enjoy and I will do a full update later.

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