Random Rachael

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Monday, June 12, 2006

Why do we lie to ourselves?

Hey ya guys,

Alright, so I have been sitting here thinking about a few situations that happened last week with a a few of my friends. And one of my friends is so blind to her situation, and I have given up trying to help.As I have said many of times before, I am the type of person who says what I think, but at a certain point I can't feel sorry for you. So, I feel that this friend of mine is purposly turning a blind one to a person who doing her wrong, because she is scared of losing this person. The sad thing is that so many girls are in this situation and I just don't understand it.Why would you sit there a let a person make a fool out of you, and then you
co-sign on the foolishness by sticking to that person. You know what a person does and the decisions they make are there own bussiness, but then you cone to me a few months later and want me to listen to the mess that is going on, or that he gave you a std, or he just up and left your ass. Come on be dead honest with yourself and understand that if you put up with shit, at the end you will be shit faced and you should not be surprised about that outcome.

I don't get why women think that these dude are worth this much. Fuck that, these mother fuckers are REPLACEABLE, stop thinking your life is gonna end if you leave him, or he leaves you. Yeah you will hurt for a bit, but you will get over that and find a real dude who deserves and respects you.Life is to short to be unhappy, just remember to take control, make it happen and lead the way. As also have fun and be safe, I'm out.

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